Social Media and Mental Health

Social Media and Mental Health

Whether you think of it a good or an evil, social media is a large part of our lives in the 21st century. Most of us are on it more than we’d like to admit. So many social interactions happen through our screen these days. In some ways, this is a blessing: we can stay...
Rules of “Fair Fighting”

Rules of “Fair Fighting”

We all know that good relationships don’t just happen – they take work.  Whether the relationship is brand new or you have been together for years, you will still have times where you disagree and have conflict. This doesn’t mean that the relationship is...
Self Care Strategies – More Than a Luxury Spa Day!

Self Care Strategies – More Than a Luxury Spa Day!

When you think of the term “self-care,” do images of spa days and bubble baths come to mind? While it’s true that self-care can definitely include pampering yourself from time to time, self-care is about a lot more than treating yourself to a luxury day. You need to...
What to Do When Faith isn’t Enough to Prevent Suffering

What to Do When Faith isn’t Enough to Prevent Suffering

As much as we might hate it, suffering is a part of life. The scriptures even tells us that there will be much suffering throughout our lives, and it can be used to draw us nearer to God and increase our faith. But, that doesn’t mean it’s always easy. When you’re in...
How To Cope When A Diagnosis of Cancer Changes Everything

How To Cope When A Diagnosis of Cancer Changes Everything

Hearing the words “you have cancer” can make it seem as though your whole life has come to a screeching halt. Those words confirming a cancer diagnosis affect you and the people who love you profoundly. Instantly, you are faced with challenges and decisions that no...
How Heaven Helps You: 5 Key Benefits of Living Your Faith

How Heaven Helps You: 5 Key Benefits of Living Your Faith

Being a Christian is often misunderstood, even by our own expectations. Sometimes we expect that having faith means life will be easy. The reality is, it isn’t supposed to be “easy” to be a Christian. But actively living your faith allow Heaven to lighten the load....
Why Self Care is a Necessity, Not a Luxury

Why Self Care is a Necessity, Not a Luxury

The phrase “self-care” gets thrown around a lot lately. So much so, that many people think it’s a luxury. Self-care can take many forms, and is vital for a balanced life. It is especially essential for those with chronic stress, illness or pain, who feel depleted...
National PTSD Awareness Day

National PTSD Awareness Day

June 27th is the National PTSD Awareness Day. It is a day to recognize the effects that PTSD has on the lives of everyone affected by it. This day was chosen in 2010 by the United States following then-Sen. Kent Conrad’s efforts to designate a day of awareness as a...
Retired – Now What?

Retired – Now What?

Congratulations on your retirement. After working for so many years, you’ve earned the opportunity to relax! But, for many people, retirement can start to feel overwhelming very quickly. If you’ve worked most of your life, you probably looked forward to this time....
Pointing Fingers of Blame

Pointing Fingers of Blame

Who’s Fault Was It? As I talked about in this blog post, there are three broad reasons why bad things happen in our lives—the results of our choices, the consequences of someone else’s behaviors, and the natural effects of living in an imperfect, mortal world with...
Understanding Self-Blame

Understanding Self-Blame

You’re unhappy, in distress, and trying to figure out how to move forward.  It is easy to fall into the self-blame trap. Could this have been avoided if only you’d done something different? Was it someone else’s fault?  Perhaps you were just a victim of...